What I Learned on a 7-day Silent Meditation Retreat

"A secluded, 412-acre meditation retreat north of San Francisco that offers weeklong silent retreats led by teachers such as Oren Jay Sofer, centered on the four brahmavihāra—loving-kindness, compassion, joy, and equanimity. Participants (about 75 at a time) surrender phones, take a vow of noble silence, and follow a disciplined daily cadence—a 6 a.m. gong, breath-focused tai-chi–like movement, long sitting meditations, silent walks, communal chores, 45-minute dharma talks, chanting, and walking meditation—which together quiet the mind and foster compassion. Accommodations are spartan dorm quarters with simple linens; meals are vegetarian and communal (examples include lemongrass curry, escarole soup, roasted delicata squash, smashed cucumber salad, and corn-and-coconut chowder), with participants helping to prepare food in silence. The campus has six trails (notably the Madrone Path and a 2.9-mile Great Loop Trail), hidden Buddha shrines and statuary, redwood forests, and expansive ridge views over Mill Valley at sunrise. Many guests describe the experience as restorative and grounding—helpful for processing grief and cultivating equanimity—and the center offers an all-inclusive seven-night retreat option (listed from $1,680)." - Nora Walsh Nora Walsh Nora Walsh is an award-winning writer who specializes in luxury hotels, Latin America, and the intersection of wellness and adventure travel. Her work appears in The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, Travel + Leisure, Robb Report, and Afar, among others. Travel + Leisure Editorial Guidelines