"Friends And Family is the sexiest date night destination in Oakland. The cocktail bar and restaurant is dark, save for a warm pink glow cast around the dining room. Their back patio channels the same vibe with murals lining the white brick wall and rows of flourishing potted plants. You can also doodle a love note for your date with crayons on the paper-covered tables. Also know that a night here isn’t complete without a slice of carrot cake and a visit to their famously photogenic bathrooms." - julia chen 1, lani conway